Val's gift for the NOT AT ALL romantic guy. ?
Okay, I’m stuck here. I’ve been with this guy for almost 10 years and still can’t manage to get him something he likes. Last year we were trying for a baby so I got the hotel room with a bag of toys, games, lotions, costumes, etc. Well, we made our baby that night, but I embarassed the crap out of him. He told me he felt like apiece of meat. We didn’t use anything that we bought and he went to bed at 10 pm. The steak dinner made him sleepy. lol. So what do I get the guy who thinks he’s done me a favor by giving me a kiss once a month. Never taken ME out for dinner or a movie, never gotten me a flower, doesn’t have a romantic bone in his body. His idea of a perfect night is to get hammered at the nearest bar and go home to have a quicky that neither of us remember in the morning anyway. He likes porn, but doesn’t like to do anything exciting in bed. I always tell him it’s disgusting, maybe I should let him order some at a hotel or something?? He won’t get me anything most likely, so I gotta do something for the both of us…. Men are pathetic… Any help appreciated. He’s 40 and a redneck if that helps ( I’m 28 and not so much the redneck.) 
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LOL. We’ve been together for 9 years and have 2 kids. I guess it’s more like we’re friends instead of ‘going out’. Keep em coming.
Any guys got some input?
Wow, you guys are really a lot of help. I guess I’ll give him a case of beer ( a proven good gift for bday, xmas, etc.). Don’t ya think it’s possible to love someone without being lovey dovey all the time?
